Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Flying Hopes

The pilots I have the pleasure of knowing LOVE and I do mean LOVE their job. They are jovial, a bit cocky and completely vintage cool. While outwardly fairly straight-laced and serious they have a sparkle in their eyes that reminds me of Kerouac’s ‘fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars’. They burn.




It has taken a few years to get to know them and it’s not often that we have time to chat but when we do, boy, do they have stories! Their stories fall in the same category as fabled fisherman’s tales where the fish grows exponentially with each iteration. They seem to adhere to a old-world code of conduct and I feel privileged to see a little glimpse of it – it seems romantic and dashing even as they suck in their bellies when we walk past them. They spin their own magic, as truth be told, we are often flying from Atlanta to some obscure mid-west town but they find a way to make it exciting - sprinkling in glamour and drama to support their hobby-cum-livelihood or vise versa.



My Dad used to burn like that and still would be if he were able to – he is the guy who loathes menial-ity and is bored by routine. It seems like he has gotten mired up in a bit of that off late. Thus it is nice to see days like this where he is having fun with his grandkids - spinning magic, reclaiming aspects of his youth.









Somehow flying has always held that intrigue, appeal of adventure and glamour for him as well – a pilot at heart, a traveler of the world in a very fundamental way, a man who has never met a stranger. I wonder if my pilots are like this as well. Are their burning eyes sparkling at the thought of distracting themselves and entertaining me as a means to escape their day to day realities?  I hope not. I hope the spark is a fire of passion that runs deep and true.









 

















Sunday, November 25, 2012

More Tricks, Less Treats

Halloween is one of my all-time favorite holidays and every year I eagerly await the boys decisions on costumes. For the last few years, I have been reiterating the need to design their own costumes, stretch their imaginations and embrace Halloween for all the awesomeness that it is. My heart swelled when Hunie told me he wanted to be a blue tree with a rainbow elephant climbing up it.

Halloween is serious business - Dad's sketches of the pumpkins...don't worry, we didn't insert 'long squash' anywhere!!
The architect was missing when the carving commenced!
I spent all night hot-gluing, spray painting and making midnight runs to various shops to put together my piece-de-resistance. Unfortunately, Huns, for his part was rather unimpressed. In fact, his reaction made me think he had actually forgotten what he had requested or perhaps my manifestation of his vision was just so far off base that he didn’t recognize it.


Or perhaps it was just that bad. He opted to run around the neighborhood in a sweat shirt.

Halloween 2011
Admittedly I was disappointed but only for about 2.5 minutes. I always feel more ‘Mom’ when I am making or mending something for my boys. I know that is the ‘me’ part of the equation and the fun for them lies in running through the streets with friends melding imagination into the realms of reality with almost full abandon and eating more candy then I would ever independently agree to - in Hunie’s case with or without pants:


Wardrobe malfunction had the Hunster high on candy and freezing his tail off....and lugging an enormous bag of candy ....

Run, Harry, Run!
2012

Plans were to create glowing IronMan costumes however reality set in three days before Halloween. I succombed to store bought crap that cost an armload and when combined with inopportune nap time for Huns resulted in a costume that had to be tucked into his socks.....but he loved it anyway!


Tings on the other hand embraced Harry so completely, he was concerned people would be disappointed that he couldn’t really produce a patronus charm. I attempted to convey the metaphorical analogies to just his positive presence but I think it fell on deaf ears.


The kids at school reinforced his Harry persona gushing over how he was just like Harry. His alter ego was born and every morning at breakfast I was regaled with Harry Potter trivia, which also fell on deaf ears…while I was mesmerized by the earnestness in his sweet face. Love this little Harry.

Kindergarden Class

Hunie joined into Ting's Class Parade


Tingu picked out the most complicated halloween patterns ever - we scaled back SIGNIFICANTLY to pull this off at school. I miss the glasses!

Pre-Trick Or Treat Party!

Hunie's halloween artwork. I love the accidental expression on this cat.

Huns and the girls at school

Impatient boys!